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Iam dating someone for over 6 months. My problem is that when it comes to
sex he wants me to please him by giving him oral everyday. But when I am in
the mood he says that he's not. I have thought about cheating on him but not
sure if it is the right thing. I care deeply for him. He keeps talking about
his ex-wife when we are in bed together. I am not sure what to do.
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Dr. Anne: Each of the incidents you cited does not sound anything real serious. But
such a consistent pattern of inconsiderate and selfish behavior makes me
feel that he may not be ready for a new loving relationship. Most caring men like to please his
partners. Sexual selfishness may be the result of not loving you. His
recurring remarks of his ex may also be a result of his inability to immerge
himself in a new ralationship with you.
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Hi I am from the Netherlands. I am 30-years old and I am very shy and have
not been with a woman yet. If I see a pretty one, my mouth doesn't work.
What can I do about that?
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Dr. Anne: It may not be often that a 30-year old man is still a virgin. But you are
not late yet. I think you know enough about the joy of sex and love to write
me to change the situation. Many young men in your predicaments do not know
how to tackle the situation. But you can change it. It usually is not a
deep-seated problem, but can be addressed with your efforts.
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Dr. Anne, I need some help. I broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago, as he was going out with another girl. I am looking for a new relationship, but I cannot put my old boyfriend out of my mind. No one seems to compare well with him. What should I do? I feel stupid and immature, but I can't help. Catalina |
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Dr. Anne: Catalina, you heard the saying "Love is blind." There is nothing wrong with the way you feel. It's not unusual to feel the way you do after breaking up with someone. All it proves is that the man is not worthy of your love.
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